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My name is Kara Schaal and I will be graduating May 2016 as a Holistic Health Practitioner. I am a certified holistic nutritionist with training in auriculotherapy , essential oils, hypnosis and specializing as a life coach. I am here to help bring balance to your life! Today we are living in a very fast paced world which can cause us stress, with usually means something in our life is out of balance. Balance in my opinion is the key to happiness, so let me help you live your happiest best life. :)
CARRIE BRADSHAW – Who recognizes this name? Chances are most of you will; most women (and maybe some men) do. If you don’t, allow me to share – she is one of the main characters in the popular television show which used to appear on HBO called, Sex and the City. I have watched this entire series numerous times, along with the two movies which followed. I encourage women to watch because I feel it is relateable, and it may cause women to feel more “normal” about being a “woman.” After watching this show during different conjunctures in my life, I frequently was able to relate to something or a certain situation portrayed. There are four main characters in the show, and four different situations within each. The woman I most relate to is Carrie Bradshaw. In fact, her character has encouraged me, at many different points in my life, to become a writer (we write concerning entirely different subjects). Although the show has a lot to do with sex, there is some significant and profound advice we can each gain from these women – if we look deep enough. Recently while watching an episode, it hit me! I wanted to share with you the most significant lesson I learned from this show, honestly, only after years of research!
During a lot of my breakups, I have developed anxiety over really and truly caring about what other people think and feel. “What our his friends and family going to think about me?” “What about our mutual friends?” Time and time again, this has made me upset and controlled my thoughts. Then I watched an episode of Sex and the City where Carrie had broken up with her beloved Aiden. She runs into a girl that Aiden dated right her, and then this happens.
This sends Carrie down the rabbit hole, with her dwelling and obsessing over this face that a STRANGER showed to her. How common is this in our own life though? Caring what other people think of us, even people we do not know. This is a common problem which tends to take up a huge amount of space in our head. Later in the episode Carrie runs into her again, and asks to speak to her. She begins to tell Nina (the stranger) this, “I get the sense you have a sort of feeling about what happened with Aidan, and I just want to clear something up. Breakups are awful, and they are private. And, they are not necessarily symptomatic of what two people had together. I loved Aidan very much. I would never, ever have done anything to deliberately hurt him.” Nina looks at her and just replies, “OK”.
Then Carrie stops and realizes something. She wasn’t worried about the critic in Nina Katz, what she was worried about was the critic in herself. At this point she realizes something so profound that we all can learn a lesson from when dealing with this sort of situation. She states, “The truth is, at any given moment, someone, somewhere could be making a face about you. But, it’s the reviews you give yourself that matter.”
It does not matter what people think of you. What matters is what you think of YOU. A sex columnist in New York could figure this out, and we can run with it! Clear that space from your head and leave room for your opinions and what you think of you. That is what matters. Do not ever let anyone’s “face” made towards you effect your day.
As time goes on it seems that more and more people suffer from anxiety. According to the ADAA anxiety is effecting around 40 million adults in the United States, and this is just the people who are reporting it. I have clients as well as friends ask me what are some tips to naturally heal this problem. Commonly, anxiety is treated by some form of pill and usually in most cases those pills can make us feel not like ourselves, worse then before, and even depressed. The world is waking up and realizing that there are other natural healers that can help take place, and take place easily! My co-writer for this blog and I have both suffered from anxiety and both been through the ringer with numerous doctors, medications, and we both have realized the key to ending this can be done naturally, holistically and simply. If you are like us and want to begin to heal anxiety naturally then we applaud you. You have decided to take control of your own health. I have worked with the amazing Holistic Nutritionist Lexy Sorlie to develop some tips for you on how to get rid of anxiety, and control it when needed.
We are going to break this article in to two different sections, Holistic Tips and Nutrition.
Lavender oil : This natural healer as been around for thousands upon thousands of years. In a study published in the journal Phytomedicine, lavender oil was shown to be just as effective as the pharmaceutical drug lorazepam (Ativan). Furthermore, lavender oil showed no sedative effects (a common side effect of lorazepam) and it had no potential for drug abuse or dependence. You can take capsules of this or simply just breathe it in, find some flowers or a bottled essential oil. Watch my video on tips to make your own clearing spray for more on how to make your own lavender spray!
Exercise: Studies have shown that even exercising for 20 minutes a day greatly reduces anxiety! Not only does it make you feel better about yourself, it pumps endorphins through your body which are chemicals in the brain that act as natural painkillers as well as help improve the ability to sleep, which in turn reduces stress. If you are feeling anxious try working out for just 20 minutes and watch how the anxiety decreases. It can be as simple as going for a walk, run, doing yoga, or hitting the gym. Whatever your taste, or situation allows, get out there and move!
Breathe: When anxiety presents itself into our lives we usually become short of breath. This can be related to the body’s natural instinct of fight, flight, or freeze. In this case that can mean that we are forgetting to exhale. Breathing exercises are becoming more and more popular to treat anxiety. Here is a quick one that you can do wherever you are! Place one hand on your chest and one hand on your abdomen. Then inhale slowly through your nose for 3 seconds. The hand on your abdomen should rise whilst the hand on your chest should stay relatively still. Then exhale through your mouth for three seconds, making a whooshing noise as you breathe out. Make sure you are breathing into your belly! Focus on the breath, with each breath think to yourself, “Inhale… exhale…. Inhale… exhale…”
Logical vs Emotional: I’ll never forget the first therapist I ever saw for anxiety. The pills I was prescribed were making me feel horrible and at a young age of 19 I knew that I had some deep rooted pain that I wasn’t expressing. I saw this therapist who would casually sit Indian style across from me and just give me simple tips. One of them she told me was that our brains can not have a logical and emotional thought at once, so if you are having a hard time controlling your own thoughts try this simple trick. Start to begin to count backwards in your mind by 3’s from 100. 100, 97, 94, 91… This technique has helped me many times. We can easily get caught up in emotionally driven thoughts and actions, this is why it is important to come from a logical point of view before making a decision while under anxiety.
Meditation: This is my number one tip for all of you! These thoughts that cause anxiety are going to come and go, what meditation teaches us is how to detach from these thoughts and let them pass, not giving much energy or feeding them. According to http://www.chopra.com “Numerous scientific studies have found meditation to be effective for treating anxiety. One study, published in the Psychological Bulletin, combined the findings of 163 different studies. The overall conclusion was that practicing mindfulness or meditation produced beneficial results, with a substantial improvement in areas like negative personality traits, anxiety, and stress.” There are a lot of excuses and people who say they cant meditate, but really everyone can. If you need help with this please contact me!
The best, easiest, and most simple tip that I can give you for reducing anxiety with nutrition is to just start eating better. Whatever that means to you as it could be switching to an all organic diet, or having one cup of coffee a day instead of three. I (Lexy) can honestly say that nutrition saved my life, but it wasn’t an overnight overhaul. It came in time, with changes I could manage and allow my body and lifestyle to adjust to. It is true that eating better will make you feel better, but one can’t expect to feel good while crashing into a hard, strict diet as that will bring more anxiety to your life. Living in the thoughts like, “Can I eat that?” “How long am I going to have to work out if I eat this?” “How many calories are in that?” “I’ll make up for this later.” and etc as the anxious mind works itself over
If you had a piece of fruit this morning for breakfast instead of a sugar-filled cereal, protein bar, or coffee drink then pat yourself on the back. Congratulations! We live in a society where we’re almost taught to be too hard on ourselves. If you parked in the back of the parking lot in an conscious effort to walk further than needed, congratulations! If you switched one cup of coffee for tea, keep up the good work! You don’t need to make extreme efforts to make a difference in your life. Don’t get me wrong, some occasions call for drastic measures, but if we’re looking to decrease anxiety, the worst thing you can do is overburden yourself with a rigid structure of what you can and can’t have to eat. This is about balance.
There are a few specific suggestions that I can also offer.
Caffeine has similar affects to the body that anxiety does, physically and emotionally. Caffeine increases blood pressure, can trigger sweaty palms, make your ears ring, your heart races… sound like anxiety yet? I’m not asking you to cut out your caffeine completely, but cutting back is a good idea if you are having complications due to anxiety. I’ve been a barista who drinks a pot or two (…or three) of coffee a day and one of the ways that I was able to began to cut back was switching out a cup of coffee for black tea. A cup of drip coffee can have up to 200 mg of caffeine depending on bean, roast, strength, among other factors while a cup of black tea will have under half of that. This isn’t getting rid of the caffeine we think we need to keep going, but it is greatly decreased. Coffee also dehydrates you as opposed to tea which in turn hydrates you. The body needs plenty of water to keep everything lubricated and running smoothly. If you are a heavy coffee drinker with a hectic lifestyle, but no matter how much caffeine you have you still feel tired, do some research on Adrenal Fatigue. That’s a topic for another blog.
A study from the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine, initially undertaken in 2009, indicated Chamomile to have remarkable benefits in the treatment of anxiety. This is a natural, calming herb that has been around since the dawn of time and people have been using it for just as long. This flower makes a delicious cup of tea tastes even better when gently sweetened with honey. It’s been proven time after time to help with sleep, which in turn also reduces anxiety. Chamomile is an herbal tea, which means it is caffeine-free naturally.
Balancing food intake with a healthy supplement regiment is important, but when it comes to anxiety there is one substance that is extremely important and that is Magnesium. We’ve known Magnesium is crucial to stress and depression for quite awhile. Back in 1996 a study was performed by Dr. Richard Cox and Dr. Norman Shealy found that 100% of chronically depressed patients were deficient in Magnesium. These results have been tested and proven time after time and span across the board without being affected by gender, weight, age, or other factors. Magnesium is required for over 300 metabolic cellular functions. It is needed for maintaining electrolyte balance, assists with healthy bowel movements, helps muscles relax, among so many other things. Supplementing with Magnesium is something everyone should do, but especially if you have trouble maintaining healthy stress levels or have problems with anxiety. Magnesium helps calm under stressful circumstances and can relieve muscle spasms, reduces hypertension and migraines. It helps regulate other vital nutrients such as Potassium, Calcium, and Sodium. The amount of Magnesium we need in the body isn’t much, but it’s proven to be critical in how the body performs.
If you have any questions please feel free to contact me (Kara). As always, have a Soulistically happy day!
My name is Kara Schaal and I am a Holistic Health Practitioner . I am a Certified Holistic Nutritionist , Life Coach, Hypnotherapist, and Reiki Practitioner with training in Auriculotherapy, Essential Oils, and Flower Essences. I also am certified in eye lash lifting and tinting as well as eyebrows.
The world today is fast-paced, full of hustle and bustle, and trying to keep up with it all can be stressful on our lives. In my opinion, balance is the key to maintaining a healthy lifestyle in the midst of all our schedules, ‘to-do lists’, and daily requirements. When we’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed it is because something is out of balance. This balancing act can be tricky and my goal is to help you through every step of the process in finding happiness, harmony, and peace. I want to help you live your best life and I am here to help you create balance!
Attention all you ladies out there! One of my innate gifts that I bring to this world is the ability to connect with you in helping you become your very own best friend, your personal cheerleader, and to empower yourself for the rest of your life. In my personalized life coaching sessions and group meet-ups, I will guide you into a life of sole fulfillment, simple solitude, while learning how to love yourself. Whether you are going through a breakup, a divorce, are suffering from low self esteem, or just searching for some assistance in this world, I can help you grow and become independent women while helping you attract the right people in your life from your newly blossomed yourself worth and value.
I was lucky enough to score an interview with one of my all time favorite role models, Chrisandra Morse. At age 33, she is a complete and balanced powerhouse of a woman!
A Boston Native, Chrisandra moved to the west coast with her family at only 21 years old with no job, or lifestyle in mind; only the possibilities of what could develop. Having her mother and grandmother as her two prominent role models, Chrisandra developed an extremely strong work ethic, and a “no excuses” attitude. A couple of years later, she was hired by a company called Prosites. Prosites was a small company at the time and she was hired to sell websites for Dentists. With hard work this young lady quickly climbed the ladder and became one of their top sales persons. Chrisandra continually kept setting higher goals for herself – one being she wanted to buy her first home by the time she was 27 , and do so on her own. Mission accomplished! As she continued to learn and grow, she realized how important balance is; not only did she want all the things she was earning, additionally Chrisandra wanted to enjoy life. Now she has purchased her beautiful second home as an investment, she has traveled the world, she has obtained the position as “Sales manager” in her company, she is an adventurer, she makes time to exercise and Chrisandra cooks most all her own healthy meals. The best attribute of Chrisandra considering how busy she is, and all the amazing things she is accomplishing – she realizes how important family is. It was a pleasure to interview her and hear some of her amazing tips on how she has accomplished many of her dreams, while living a balanced life. Even though she was hosting a party later that day , Chrisandra made time to share all her useful tips with the world! I loved her advice and hope you will too! Check out the interview below!
Super excited to announce a new package and promotion for women! I feel blessed to be able to share my gifts and tips with you and assist you on the journey of becoming your own best friend as well as enjoying solitude.